Author Archives: Kathy

No Umbrella*

Last week, when I was walking across campus in the rain, I felt a surge of gratitude for my umbrella.  Appreciating this ordinary item caused me to reflect on my childhood and youth without umbrellas. And to wonder if it was … Continue reading

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Neither a Pontiac or a Chevy

I met someone yesterday who said I had a cool job — teaching Latin. That reaction is a little unusual. Though many people say how much they love Latin or make a positive but somewhat inaccurate remark, such as, “That’s the … Continue reading

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Don’t Go Past the Wendy’s

My daughter recently visited the College of Wooster with forty-some students from Bronx Preparatory Charter School, where she teaches, all of them African-American or Latino. Wooster is a small town about 90 minutes south of Cleveland. It’s in farm country, and Margaret … Continue reading

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Acedia and Mom

I just finished reading Acedia & Me: A Marriage, Monks, and A Writer’s Life (2008) by Kathleen Norris, a spiritual writer known for her meditative memoirs Dakota, The Cloister Walk, Amazing Grace, and The Virgin of Bennington. In this most recent book, Norris spends a … Continue reading

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Patti and the Power

John recently bought me a tape (used…discarded by the library) of Patti Smith’s Dream of Life. I loved her recent memoir Just Kids and have been listening to her a lot. The first song, “People Have the Power,” seems to … Continue reading

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Check It Off — Lord Jim

Back-to-back classics. I just read Joseph Conrad’s Lord Jim for the first time. It’s been sitting on the shelf lo these many years, reputedly one of John’s favorite books, and I finally took it down to read. I wonder if … Continue reading

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Pride and Prejudice and BPD

My book group just discussed Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, and since then I’ve been pondering what seems to me to be one of its themes. Austen intends for us, by the end of the book, to like Elizabeth and Darcy, … Continue reading

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“Women Hold Up Half the Sky” (a Chinese Proverb)

It appears that more girls have been killed in the last fifty years, precisely because they were girls, than men were killed in all the wars of the twentieth century. When I read this line aloud to my husband, he … Continue reading

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Mildred Morgan Changed My Life

Mrs. Morgan, my tenth-grade English teacher, was near retirement age in 1967, white-haired, lively, and enthusiastic. She smiled a lot. She loved teaching and loved teaching writing. She told me I was a good writer. Maybe she said the same to … Continue reading

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Cold/Turkeys

On the rare occasions I shake hands with someone whose hands are even colder than mine, I realize what an unpleasant experience it is. “Icicle” and “dead fish” come to mind. Unfortunately, my frigid fingers are usually subjecting another person … Continue reading

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